Long Distance Issues.....Possible WAW

[Dazed&Confused]

Well, I called the house to talk to my son. He normally answers, it's a new privelege for him, and he loves it! There is only three people who have it so the wife lets him.

The wife answered this time. Again, she was all happy sounding so I matched it. She asked me about my gym time last night. (must have saw it on facebook) So we talked about that, and she told me about a spin class she went to. I already knew about it (facebook) but played it off.

She asked about my box, and then wanted to know if I had told my parents. I told her that I sent my Mom and Sister an email explaining our situation. She wanted to know why I sent an email and didn't call. I reminded her that I only call to DSN numbers and that it was the weekend. And told her that I thought she wanted me to tell them sooner than later.

Then she wanted to know that I told them. I told her that that I told them that we were having issues and that she wanted a divorce. She got real quiet and just said huh. I asked if she was alright, and said that is the situation that we are in right now, and that I couldn't have said any other way.

I think that she didn't like me telling them that "she" wanted a divorce. I am not and will not shoulder any of the divorce blame in this situation. I will be accountable for my actions that put in the place she is in and no other. I will make it abundantly clear that I do not want this and am fighting to save it.

I talked to my son after that, and my allotted time expired. I was going to call back, but decided that it would be better to just let it end like that.

Thoughts?