YES DayBre. But thanks for keeping an eye on me..and KEEP those recomendations comming....
I did thank W and tell her what a fantastic job she did. I even told a little white lie... I told her that other people saw her working on my Computer and commented on how fast and well she did it.... When I got home yesterday, she did ask how my tests went. I had the Finals Plus the instructor let me take a makeup test, the test I took after my Father and son vacation was a disaster. I was out of sync with studding and was having a bad day and only got a 69% (D+). He let me take that test again (94 questions) and I passed this time with 96% (A). She was really impressed. DO NOT get me wrong I did not do it to impress her… I did it for me...but that was a nice side benefit. BTW the final I took yesterday had 184 questions…. Later yesterday wife came to me to discuss fixing son’s computer so he can play newer games on it. W is great at looking things up on computers and figuring things out. So she came to me to discuss what she was planning on doing to it. And I “Recommended some changes” because of what I have learned and I told her some things that she would need to do to accomplish what she was planning to do. And she ended up saying “wow you know allot more about this stuff than me” This has been a side issue in our marriage... a little with my self esteem and actually a little with hers. W was the “smart” technical person and I was the “Good Labor orientated” person... in other words the “Ditch digger”. I always felt that w kind of looked down on be like she was a little better than I. Not that she did not appreciate my “manual labor” but still …..She was better than me…. Looks like I am changing the tables…. One thing I am starting to see and have a problem with. I feel wife is finding things to do like work on son’s computer and yoga and other stuff to keep her occupy BUT also to avoid. Looking for a job. This is one thing I have learned in one of my classes… a lot of times when WE say “we don’t have enough time” the real reason is because we end up doing things to avoid doing what we SHOULD be doing…. Well got ta go this is the first weekend I don’t have any homework… BUT my uncle called yesterday and wants me to come over to his ranch and help him fix fences…. (I better inherit his 56 Chevy) Later Doc
And if I claim to be a wise man, well It surely means that I don't know
