If my wife is going through an MLC instead of some sort of EA, would/should I be doing anything different?
I personally don't believe in MLC (and it doesn't believe in me either!), with ages ranging from 20s to 60s and an incredible range of symptoms, it just seems like easy label to apply to these issues.
Stay busy John. If you need to, call a friend, or use IM etc. I'm literally counting the hours til my daughters are home. And best of all, my W works on Sunday when they return, so I'll have them all to myself! God I love my girls.
sounds like a great weekend, PH, I'm sure you have a ton of stuff planned, kids are cool, have fun!!!!
Oh, my kids are with the FIL in her hometown, so I'm home alone. Just worked out, grabbed a six pack of Shiner Bock, and a pizza. Going to enjoy a movie. Maybe tomorrow I'll pack all her [censored] into a trashcan for when she comes home...
Found out she took Sunday off, so I don't know when my girls will be home. And she'll be there being a big buzz kill.
Ask her when the kids will be home, you're their dad, you're allowed to ask, because you are trying to make plans to do an activity with them and would like to know when they'll be in.
Go look in the Infidelity forum. There is a thread on this subject by Quicksilver. Puppy and QS are your men here. There is tons of info on the various threads (the guys mostly) on gathering intel, but you will have to dig. Best bet is to find the thread and read it first.
