Baby born, separated, WH moving overseas for OW

[gatsby11]

K, I'm back.

Here's what I think about the convo. It depends on your goal.

If your goal is to be 'friends' (or friendly) BEFORE he leaves, then try the heart-to-heart and validate, etc.

If your goal is to 'move forward' (you can still work on friendly down the road), then I would just avoid him over the next 19 days.

I know it's hard because he is leaving and that is REALLY REALLY hard. But you also know that it will be really good for you at the same time.