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I see you didn't answer my question.

That's ok it is for you anyway.

Look why I asked it is not because I am another insensitive man (I may be on occasion but this is not one of them)

YOU made a decision when you decided to keep your pregnancy.

What I want you to do is dig for the "why"

I am betting

That it was based in what you believe.

I am betting

That you went through all sorts of what if's

What if H leaves? ( A very real possibility)

What if ______?

And you still made this choice.

Why?

There is a strength in you that you do not see.

That you cannot reach now when you need it most.

Your M is no different then the respect and love you are giving your unborn child.

And this is going to be tough for you to understand

Your H is no different than your unborn child.

Think of him this way for now.

He is lost

He is confused

He is incapable of making the choices that are right for HIM because he doesn't know who he his right now.

You are not his mother.

BUT

He is behaving like a child.

Not your place to correct him.

Only to honor and love him

If you choose to.

When you do this

...you do the same for yourself.

My goal is to some day be the person my dog thinks I am