Well, it's the weekend, so I imagine that I will not hear back on my response to the Lawyer. No communication from the wife since our talk. I hope it stays that way. If I could only figure out when she works, I would just wait until then to call my son.

The hard part is not being able to see my daughter. Skype is my only option, and I really do not want to see the wife right now. I do not plan on communicating with her until she has told me that she went and saw a lawyer.

The more I have had time to think about this, all of the people who told me to slow down, that I do not have to make a decision now, are right. THANK YOU!

On another note, my wife and I have been living off of my paycheck for the most part for last year and some change. I know she can do that easily, ecspecially with me being gone. She is going back to work full time in about a week or so. Should I reduce the amount of money that I will be giving her? I just do not want to be an enabler during this process. Do not get wrong, I am not talking about taking away from kids, I just know what our budget is and do think it is quite right for her to be able to pocket her entire check is all.

Well, that is about it on my end. I went to the gym again last night and ran on the treadmill like I had a pack of wolves on my ass. It felt great! There might be something to this exercise thing! smile


Me:33
W: 31
M: 8
T: 13
S: 6
D: 8 months
The Bomb 7/22/10 "I can't do this anymore, I'm done"
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