I am sorry to hear that your wife filed. It is still not over yet, so keep DBing and be positive.
Keep the hope, but listen to your instincts about what she is really telling you. Do not let your emotions cloud your good and knowledgeable judgement.
ME-41 W-33 M-8 D-8 S-4 D 5/17/2010 www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1961097#Post1961097