How To Tell The Kids

[BeingMe]

No offense taken, Dan. I realized you weren't aware of the entire story. I probably would've been still trying if H hadn't had the EA, but not putting his best foot forward to prove that he can be trusted and showing he loves me, has made me love him less, and now not at all despite my warning him many times over the last 5 or 6 years. Oh well, his loss. I hope you find a good resolution in your sitch. Even if you D, there is always hope if the love is still there. You haven't been married long enough for her to have lost hers. Deep down, she probably does still love you, and as they say, it is more a choice than a feeling.

Thanks for the good wishes for me. I do already have peace and happiness because I choose it, whether married or not. I am living a truthful life, not putting up a front to make others comfortable, and there is a certain freedom in that. For a long time, I did want the dream of a good M, but it seems it's not going to happen for me. I am happy to have a good friendship. I, for instance, still make my H dinner, and will wait for him. Your W is being foolish denying you the pleasure of eating dinner with your children. And, petty, IMO.

Take care.