Hey thanks, Think I will have a few beers after I'm done tomorrow with midterms. Ya my in-laws-are great, but see noone knows the whole truth about the m or the affair. Now I think even if W feels like their is a hope is will be sturbon, affarid, or embarrassed of what's happened. As of now I don't know what think oh well
Hey guys, Came to a writing block on my midterm so been on here for a few!!I sometimes ask myself why I still have Hope. I guess each day is different and you never know what can happen. Not only is this my life, my M, my family and I want to explore all my possibilities until it’s done.
I will always feel that we didn’t give it our all; as I told my W before we separated that we will always be in each other’s lives even as our S grows up and has a family of his own.
Hey guys thanks for all the encouragement!! Midterms are done ok it was an hr late ,but done.. This week has been a rough one.. Maybe I get to talk to my S tomorrow it suck he is away even if it's with the grandparents, but I know he will be having fun.
This month is going to be a tough one our anniversay is at the end of the month as well as W b-day. Who knows what I will do? Love to just ask W out on a date, but who knows what will happen between now and then!!(hope for the best)
I guess besides being alone again I miss my family and the family times togeather. Last time we all hung out was S grauaduation in June and got mixed singals then as well.
Well have to be in early tomorrow at work so talk later.
Oh hey guys what is everybodys favorite drink?
I have a few stand bys Sam Adams tripple Bock, Red stripe, Heineken, any good micro brew, and of coures my favorite Tanqueray Sterrling Vodka on the rocks w/a splash of tonic. Later Hope
It is tough what to do next but dropping the rope & having fun with the guys I hope will help it just sucks as I just found out my friend is getting a legal separation what's with the 30's crowd.?? I don't get it !!!
You have no idea! My wife and I had 4 solid couples that we hung out with. All of them are done, and now it looks like the wife and I are going to put that proverbial cherry on top of it all. It still amazes me. We are the only one with kids though...which makes it that much more sad and difficult for me. (she wants it, so it must not be that difficult, right!)
Me:33 W: 31 M: 8 T: 13 S: 6 D: 8 months The Bomb 7/22/10 "I can't do this anymore, I'm done" http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2048765&page=1
None of this stuff makes any sense any more, but still keeping hope as each day closer to our anniversary gets harder.
For some reason it's hitting pretty hard all most like the first week I moved out. Plus haven't tales to S in 3 days he is up with grandparents and the are up visiting the green mountains in Vt. Sure s is having a blast!! I Gotta get back to work later hope
Hope, think of this as a war. There will be a lot of small battles that'll hurt, but time is on our side. It's not on the side of the OM. Affairs just don't last. Think long term; months not weeks, years not months.
I expect my wife to move out in a month or so. Live her fun little life while still trying to be a respectable mother (hah!). And then realize that she's not the center of attention anymore. That a 36 year old mother of two, living in a crappy apt. isn't going to convince her boss (married with 5 kids) to leave his wife. Just isn't going to happen. Then she'll see that I'm cooking with gas, enjoying my life, and she realize that:
1. I've conducted myself with class 2. I've made changes that she never thought were possible. 3. I'm a great father, and good provider for my family 4. That I'm still the kind, smart guy she married 5. That she misses all of that, and that the love she once had might be rekindled.
Fantasy, eh? Maybe. She's stubborn as hell, and would probably be afraid that I wouldn't take her back. And maybe I wouldn't, depending on how long we've been apart etc. As Yoda says, "Always in motion, is the future."
Either way, 1-4 still apply to me whether she comes back or not. As for my pain and hurt, this too shall pass.
Hey guys, So I get this Text from W Are you there? So I’m thinking what the Fu** now she want to meet sometime to go over Separation agreement & D. Then I get a phone call most of the time I only get text in my apartment bad reception.
I go outside listen to voicemail she is sad and pouty and says I locked myself out of house just in case your screening calls which I don’t, but she can think that!!(I almost busted out laughing)...
So I waited almost 10 min. and called her back said they just got your text and voice mail she was kind of a mess, so I told her to relax. I told her I was just finishing my Midterm up and would be over (W thanked me).
(Although I wish I waited and let W wait a little longer, I know probably not). Then I get a few other texts once I was leaving: I'm locked out, can you help me and so on.
During the 10 min drive I was just trying to laugh and be happy. When I got their I smiled, and said hey. W look like she was crying or about to cry who knows!! Then I padded her on the shoulder said hey let’s get you in side. Then W started rambling about nonsense she was kind of a mess & pouty. I let her in and used the bathroom.
W gave me the mail and just made some small talk with her about the trip back home and the family party, work and of course about our S.
W colored hair & was starting to let grow again. I told her it looked nice & how I always liked her with long hair she smiled & said thanks.
Well we were talking about something and saying good-by and I leaned in & gently touched her face with my hand as I use too!!
Then she wished me luck on my midterm (well just waiting for grade, but was nice) I said have a good night. Maybe shouldn't have, but felt nice.
She looked like a mess & was probably upset with herself for having to call me oh well. We haven’t really talked or texted in about a month unless it's been about S. (not gonna lie it was nice to see her & better yet still need me Ha-ha!!
Who knows what this month will bring as our anniversary is this month and I don't even know if or what I should do. This is gonna be a rollercoaster of a month. Oh & I got to talk to S tonight so that was good.
Hey guys, Hope everyone has a good day. I know last night was nothing, but it felt nice knowing W still needed my help!!
This month is just going to be tough her B-day which was always fun and family time( which I miss a lot). I have no clue what to do about our anniversary any suggestions would be much appreciated!! Busy at work so won't get on here much talk later...
Hey guys, Tonight was a rocky one!!! Think I'm gonna get up eary before work and go to the gym. I hope tomorrow will be better for everyone Later Hope!!
