Did I miss something?

Greek..

"And you are trading them to wait for a husband who chose an alternate path in HIS life. HE has moved ON."

What if Coach had been given this advice and followed it?

I am confused.

http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubb...699#Post1526699

Seems as you had picked an alternate path too. L and all.

Please explain exactly what point you are trying to get across her.

Relax
Eat
Think
Act normal
React.. Smartly.
Do something different.
Emulate.
Do Work.

Lets get "RETARDED" in here.