cheated on, lied to, and now I am moving on

[Lucky11too]

I agree with newmamma. Definitely go to the L on Monday and start the process of filing. He continues to lie, cheat, and is stuck in his rut. But it's still not over til it's over and the D is complete. I know when I had talked to my L, she said in cases where a couple decides not to D before proceedings, she returns the majority of the retainer less any applicable billings for work performed. Just in case your H comes around when served, it might be a question to ask your L.

And one more thing about the postcard. His story is completely BS! I don't buy it for one second! If it really was just her using it to buy the ticket for the graduation, it would have either had just her name (as the passenger) or just his name (as the credit card holder). There's no other reason in the world both of their names would be together on the postcard. And not that you really want to put yourself thru it, but I'm sure there would be ways to call the travel agency and get info out of them. But I think it's time to move beyond that and continue living the new life you have created for yourself. Super surpised that H remembered today, but maybe if nothing else, he's finally starting to learn to be a dad again (well, without the responsibility of one tho). Anyways, take the time for yourself tomorrow!