A question for you folks

[newmama]

For me it's simple...I was served, and I think it's best for me to move on. I won't lie, until the whole process is completely final, I will hold a little bit of hope but am not putting my life on hold any longer.

I can't speak for others, but I will say that ONLY WE KNOW OUR spouses and marriages...so unless the spouse was abusive or just treated the DBer like complete crap, I support others' decisions to wait and "stand" for their spouse!