I don't really have an answer for you, as I'm struggling with the same issue. I have a High Drive compared to my husband. At least I did before separation. Now he seems happy with the once a week that he initiates. I always respond with enthusiasm and haven't initiated myself because pre-separation, I'd nag him about it constantly.
Not who I want to be.
So, I don't have any words of wisdom for you.
And darn it all, but I'm about to turn 29...aren't I supposed to hit my sexual peak sometime soon?
