They don't want to. It's one of those family reunion type things we hold yearly and my kids don't know anyone there except their grandparents. Most of my family lives 1.5 hours away and we don't see them except at the summer picnic. My brother isn't up to going and my sister appears to be going to the Carribana festival downtown instead. I'll be fine...as long as I stay away from those darn pictures! Thanks for checking in on me Donna.