I will Survive.

[Shelby]

I am not sure what to expect. I wasnt expecting to be served papers at my work, I wasnt expecting him to take most of our money out of our account, I wasnt expecting him to cancel our joint credit cards either. But these are all things he has done in the past 2 weeks. I just want to make sure I and my daughters are protected.
I have tried DB for the past 2 years and I still find myself in the surviving the Big D.

I think we do have a lot of issues to go over, health insurance for myself since I am a cancer survivor, The house has never been in my name even though I have lived here for 16 years. I did not want this divorce, but since he wanted it sooo bad that he would have me served at work, even though we were still living together, and he moved out that night, I don't think there is any going back at this point.

I am not going to be mean or revengefull, I just want to make sure I get what I should, He wanted and would like, If I would use his lawyer, But isnt that a conflict of intrest ? And If he wanted to use a mediator like he originally mentioned, why would he go ahead and have me served ?

Hope I am making sense, I have a lot on my mind tonight.