wow shiny, how am i, a relative newbie to this supposed to bring you up as well as you have me in recent past?

i think you are making tons of assumptions, and letting runaway thinking rule your head right now. and even tho your "piecing" i still think that only a year after the bombs is not enough time for it actually to be all healed ya know?

they say it takes a woman's insides 3 years to heal after a child - and that is only after carrying it nine months. what is my point?

i still think you and cj both need time. you two are very busy with careers and you JUST got back on the marriage train after being off the tract for so long.

men - can't live with em, can't shoot em LOL

kitti