I know that. You cannot change who you are. And frankly, I wouldnt want her to.
I gotta call BS on this one! Of course people can change. They are either changed by circumstances, or they choose to change. But that doesn't matter, you can bet that if you don't change something, then nothing will change. As long as you wait around for her to change, guaranteed, there will be no change. If you get a life, move on, leave her in the dust....she will change. It may not matter to you anymore. But she will change.
People dont change who they are.
People can change their actions and not act how they are.
But they cant change "who" they are.
If my wife id's as poly, its like someone earlier said. Then thats who she is. Me going along with it was me trying to change who I was. Now the shoe is on the other foot. I dont know...I guess we will see.
