Yeah, I don't see H being the PA type, but I've been completely naive about him before, so you never know. But at least in this case, that is a good sign. I'm still trying to figure out if I should even respond some time today. If he's just trying to get a response out of me, then I definitely want to remain silent, but if he really doesn't get it, then I want to make sure I'm completely clear about what my boundary (aka ultimatum) is. It has nothing to do with the life he has chosen - it's not ideal obviously working at a bar, but we can work with it - but when he's using his job as an excuse to get away with inappropriate actions, that's the problem. Grr. I don't know where his brain is at, but I think I've been clear, so I guess I'll just remain silent. If the opportunity comes up again to clarify, then I will. I even have a great response text set up just in case. haha. Even if I respond on this point, I am completely still holding to my no OW or no me boundary! No ifs, ands, or buts - I'm strong on this point! (but if we ever get to that point, that will be a whole other hurdle - attempting to build trust again! Blah. What a long road! =/)
Me 27; H 28; S 2 Togeth 9; M 4 Sep 11/14/08 EA OW1 Sep 08 EA OW2 Mar 09 EA OW3 Jun 10
