Sorry Being. Didn't mean to offend anyone. I just picked-up you invalidation comment off of Future's thread and it hit home for me because I'm sure that's how my W feels about me, but I never understood it. I'm sorry it has come to this for you. I'll try not to offer advice to people anymore unless I am up to date on their thread.
Regarding my sitch. I think you have it right. She wants the D, just not RIGHT NOW. She wants her summer with the kids and for me to give her $ while she is working part-time. I suppose that is why she is still doing my laundry, so she can claim she is still doing what she used to do, so I should do the same. Will wait for the court to tell me on Tuesday what I need to do. Then we'll know wxactly what has to happen between now and when the D is final in 4 months.
I hope you somehow find peace and happiness at the end of this.
