Grats on the grade. That's worth at least one beer tonight! And any time you can talk with or see your S is fantastic.
I'm going to call my FIL tonight to talk to my two Ds. This is going to be the first time that I've talked to him since he learned from W about us. I'm pretty well decided on what I'm going to say, since I have/had a great R with him.
"D, I just wanted to say that you've been the best FIL a man could have asked for, and I'm glad to have been a part of your life. You know your daughter is stubborn, but if she ever wants to reconcile, and is too afraid, give her a fatherly push, would you?"
I hate the fact that I'm going to lose a whole 'nuther family through her selfishness. People I've spent 13 years with, sharing everything. Makes me hate her...