A question for you folks

[Shelby]

I was originaly on the newcomers forum 2 years ago, I worked like crazy to try and save my marraige, and sometimes I would see some hope. I am glad I did because as someone said before, at least now I know I gave it my all to try to save it, and we also did have some good times with the kids we wouldnt have had otherwise.
I started coming back to DB in May when he started with the same story, I am not happy, ILYBNILWY. I was still fighting it though.
I moved to Survivng the Big D when he had me served at work with divorce papers, there was no moving back after that. Divorce is definetaly in my future. I saw a lawyer yesterday, it is not what I wanted but I will survive it.


I also realize now that yes he stayed physically the past 2 years, but for the most part he was emotionaly gone. Even with all that I was willing to do to save the marraige,it really needs 2 people to work on and save a marraige not just 1. And he was not willing to work on it with me.