I need some advice from those familiar with gathering intel on potential EA/PA. I've been pretty thorough so far, checking her FB, her email, her old phone etc. Nothing. She's not very tech savvy, so I'm pretty sure there's nothing electronic. Yet if she's having an EA/PA with her boss, well they wouldn't need much communication since she sees him almost daily.

Is using a voice activated recorder or maybe a GPS phone really a good idea? The only free time she would have is early in the morning when she goes to work out, but they could be having a rendezvous before, during or after. She leaves at 5 to work out, and usually doesn't start work until 7 (8 lately). So plenty of time for hanky panky.

I thought about putting the recorder under her car seat, hoping to catch some incriminating conversations.

Otherwise I thought of just confronting her when she returns this weekend. If I spring it on her suddenly, I might be able to tell if she's lying. But I wouldn't have any evidence to use to expose her.