Maybe she needs to see the other side of a D, what it's truly like, and maybe you and her may fall in love again later.
I'm hoping for that with my H 'cause we are not into each other now. Who knows?
BeingMe, that's an interesting comment. Even in your decision to end your M, there is still hope.
I'll return to how I was earlier this year, which is exactly as you describe. Back then I had a tinge of anger inside me that usually permeated. I'm hoping to avoid that this time, but it's very difficult when I see my kids being hurt by her actions.