Also, you might want to consider how you feel after you've been around X.

I believe that I will stay dark until I can be around X and not feel angry or sad about R any more.

I haven't had a conversation with him since about November or so. Prior to that, even.


M: 16 years
Bomb 4/07
OW 20s long gone
Divorced 11/09
I remarried New Guy
Cooperative r w/X regarding D