Judy,

There is a thread going on currently that you need to read.

http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2047839#Post2047839

You are by your account in the zone for LRT. There's a post in there that explains it very succincctly.

I can tell you it's freaking hard at first. Keep coming back here and journaling. We will help you.

ADAPT. OVERCOME. IMPROVISE.
-Tom Highway


Me: 43
W: 40
S12 & S9
Married 17yrs
Together 20yrs