Well, I just got off the phone with the new MC for a screening and she seems optimistic. She says she deals with this quite frequently and has a plan that could get things back on track. I asked her what that plan involved,and she said it was based on me inviting her back into the relationship, and most of the work was on my part and it would be hard.
Up until now the pursuing has been very productive
Did you let the MC know about the multiple EAs, her verbal abuse, she hits you and has threatened to hurt herself?
You already got your answer to inviting her back into your marriage, talking, words, saying things the right way aren't the answer.
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I immidiately suggested MC. She said no at first, but after a few days said OK - but I'm only going for you, not for me. That was good enough for me. MC at first was terrible, we only blamed each other and got angry, she just kept saying "I don't want to be with you, I don't want to be in the same house, I want to move out with my Aunt".
Is this still good enough for you? Do what works.
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.
