So how do you handle it when you ask if they are in or out and the answer comes back that they don't know.
Stop asking. Make yourself attractive to her while letting her go - "lovingly detach."
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Do you then set a time by which they must decide. or tell them that answer means they are out.
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I guess my issue here is that if she has no interest in reconciling then i don't really want to sit around waiting till it's convenient for her to separate.
So no sitting around, go have some fun this weekend, be mysterious. Workout, go listen to some music, go to the lake/river/beach, find a team to join, buy some new clothes/music, revive a hobby.
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.
