Well not much to tell. It comes as no surprise that my H continues to lead a double life and to lie even though he doesn't have to. I no longer stay around when he comes to town, which is less and less all the time.
I am ready to move on with my life and I am working on finishing paying the bills off. I may be able to get out from under this house very soon and that would facilitate things greatly. In the next year or so this ordeal may actually be over. I never wanted my marriage to end, but as most of you who follow my story know, I never had the marriage I thought I did or wanted anyway.
I know I did not DB as well as I could have, but I doubt it would have made much difference. What DB (and counseling) did do for me is enable me to move on a much stronger person.
Me 54 DS19 and DS17 Married 06/1989 Divorced 01/2011
