It appears to me that you are still way too engaged in her crisis. In HER nightmare. It appears to me based on your post that you think that somehow you can get her to see the "light". YOU CAN't PERIOD. So please stop trying. The only thing that you can do is...
1) Determine if you have the stomach for this. 2) Get the F out of her way
You have kids together so there will need to be some interaction. Outside of the kids you should say nothing. Nothing at all. If she decides to have a convo - listen..that is it.
If I was a betting man, I would say that you are wondering why we are telling you this. We'll let me answer you.
Your W is sick right now..Your W is confused (call it MLC, call WAS, call it whatever the hell you want). Your W was not happy in the M. This is how SHE feels. YOU feel differently. So what is one to do?
Can you control someone else? NO.
Can anything that comes out of your mouth change the way she feels? NO (You have most likely tried this already)
So what do you do? Everyone has told you already but I will repeat it. Pour yourself a huge glass of STFU, detach and go live your life i.e. GAL. Am I telling you to call it a day and go screw someone else. NO. I am telling YOU to find happiness in YOUR life cause right now your W (for whatever reason) is not going to provide this. Could you she in the future? Yes but NO one can ensure this.
Re-read your thread Radio
And I am sorry if I have offended you.
God Bless, Eric
"The difficulties of Life are intended to make us BETTER,not bitter". "Fear is a prison, where you are the jailer. FREE YOURSELF!" "Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B." - Jack3Beans
