Standing tall for myself--forever & ever, amen.

[Truegritter]

Crushed

Sorry I didn't see this post.

1st Sorry for the hijack breal

She could give up some of that control to realize I can step up. But how do you exhibit that when she's gone?

There is work to be done behind the scenes...

On you.

Look at the things your W says and some of it is just spew

but

pay particular attention to the stuff that stings.

Those things are what YOU need to work on.

Find what you don't like in yourself and change it.

Kill it.

Then

We have a little saying around here

You can't talk your way out of something you acted your way into.

Actions.

Show her actions. Not words.

And make sure those actions are not tricks or ploys or strategies

Real changes.

For you.