Re-Connecting

[Fightingforher]

That's the first thing I thought of Dan when she contacted me. I certainly won't be getting involved with anyone right now. I know I would be cheating myself and whoever I got involved with.

It's amazing how clear my head is right now. I feel like I've been given a 2nd chance to make things right for me. My marriage was always rocky and my therapist asked me a question the last time that really made me think. She asked me "FFH did you settle for your W, were you really in love when you got married" Long story short my W and I moved very quickly and early in the R she had given me an ultimatum and I got engaged.

I know that sounds silly but I thought I was in love, maybe I was at the time. It's hard now to look back after all that's happened to really define our R. Anyway, we have a wonderful child together and that's what I need to focus on.