New to this Community seeking advice

[MichelleLT]

I have friends that just celebrated their 10th anniversary yesterday. Neither of them wear their rings.

He is a firefighter. If you've ever seen what melted metal can do to the human hand it's pretty obvious why he doesn't wear his ring.

She works in a pharmaceutical manufacturing plant. After damaging her rings the third time, she put them in their safe and left them there.

That's not a reflection of their commitment to each other though.

On the other hand, the WAS taking off their ring is most definitely a statement of commitment. Or lack thereof.