I was trying to to be coy with my "might" comment. He answered my initial request. He didn't go into any details, but said if it was her idea for the uncontested divorce, that she would have to serve me papers first.
I think that might be hard and expensive seeing that I am in Iraq. He didn't mention any codes or legal mumbo jumbo. I asked him what his consultation fees were. I want to contact him on Monday.
I am really interested in what Puppy said about what are the norms thesed days. If me getting 50/50 physical custody is not out of the norm, I will be more than willing to make her wait if I can.
Again, thanks for the input, I feel myself gaining some confidence to fight again!
Me:33 W: 31 M: 8 T: 13 S: 6 D: 8 months The Bomb 7/22/10 "I can't do this anymore, I'm done" http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2048765&page=1