You need to distract yourself, too much of your current energy is invested in this and you are drained and you're afraid of making a mistake if you breathe air in one room and fart in another - that's no way to live life being afraid of every step you take.
You need to relax, book yourself a massage - see if your wife is available ;-)
Go play some golf with some friends, go out with some friends, how's the entrepreneurial thing going? Are you able to concentrate and invest your energies in that venture the way you had planned with all this going on? If not, is it suffering? Do something with the kids today after work, something fun, maybe an outdoor pool/indoor pool/beach. Heck go to the park with a soccer ball, football, etc.
