What I hoped to get here was advise on how to deal with that in the short term while letting time pass and seeing if we could get our marriage back on track.
thank you for answering my questions earlier.
I think understanding the meaning of this word:
sublimate
may help you. Steve.
DO I need to divert the energy or her? I think she is trying to change what she recognizes as unacceptable socially and struggling to do that.
Or do I need to be doing that and just let her be "poly" and chose to stay or go based on my own beliefs. Not sure where you are driving this bus.