Well speaking for myself, I have bounced around a bit based on where I am in my sitch. I went from Newcomers to Were Separated when my WAW moved out of the house. I was all prepared to head to Surviving the Big D later this year when all of a sudden WAW starts giving mixed signals and has decided to move back into the house. So now I have taken my thread to Piecing, although I'm not totally convinced that she is really interested in a long term R with me. Time will tell. If she, or we, or even I decide that a R is not in the cards then I have detached enough that I could easily move to the Surviving board and begin to move on in my life after M.