New to this Community seeking advice

[MichelleLT]

So...knowing your W, do you think wearing yours is pressure? A reminder of what you don't have right now?

Or a secure sign of your commitment despite the distance between you?

While the last is romantic, I'm pretty sure it's not her state of mind LOL.

But, she also let the D proceedings lapse and hasn't refiled. And you obviously are still committed to trying to save your M.

So...you can leave it on til the D is refiled and finalized, take it off if she refiles, or take it off now.

You can always put it back on.

In fact, a good chunk of those who I have seen R have either gotten new rings or made some ceremony out of exchanging rings again (when they get to the point of a formal recommitment).