Telling me over and over to dump the bitch isnt what I was lead to believe this website was about.
Eh, that's not what it's about. We understand you are deeply hurt right now. This is not a fun place to be but we are.
The thing is, she feels a certain way and that way is the "truth" to her. The sooner you can accept that, though you don't agree with it, the better off you will be. It sucks but it's true.
True. And I do get how she feels. And its why I have told her if this guys is more important then me. Then leave. I wont bar the door as it were.
Im not a martyr here and I dont want her to be with me out of obligation. Im prepared to move forward without her if thats what she wants.
The thing is she keep telling me she doenst want that. She wants to be with me. So, Im trying to do that. But doing it how we are doing it now. Is wrong. And i cant in good conscience sit here and play married.
