You could always say "I want you to know that I really did want to work on our marriage and was hoping we would be reuniting instead of divorcing." and see what she says, too!
I said something similar to my W earlier this week per Rob's advice. I basically told her that she knows how I feel about her, that I would be there if she ever wanted to talk and that I just want her to be happy regardless of what happens to us. It was sort of my way of telling her I'm letting her go. She thanked me for the kind message. Feel like I finally made it about her instead of about me.
Strange that your W still has not gotten back to you about your house.
Have a good time tonight and have a cold one for me.
M 38 WAW 36 Together 19 years Married 12 years Bomb/Separated Oct. 09 I love my wife Sitch