Telling me over and over to dump the bitch isnt what I was lead to believe this website was about.
Eh, that's not what it's about. We understand you are deeply hurt right now. This is not a fun place to be but we are.
The thing is, she feels a certain way and that way is the "truth" to her. The sooner you can accept that, though you don't agree with it, the better off you will be. It sucks but it's true.