A question for you folks

[ImprovedRomeo]

For me the previous time I hung in there for almost 2 years waiting for her to come back and she eventually did. So I was in the 'we're separated now what?' section.

This time it's obvious to me that the best course of action for me is D. This is based on:

1. She came back after she got hurt and that crushed me but I accepted it (done really want to elaborate).

2. Even if she comes back again what guarantees she won't leave again?

3. I now wish I'd D'd her last time I would've been so much better both financially and emotionally by now. The only consolence is that I gave it my best trying to keep the family intact and we had some great vacations and memories with DD in the last two years that we all would've missed out on.

Can't speak for others really but I think some people are where I was during our previous separation and some are where I am today.