Protect yourself legally, financially and emotionally and any other way that you may be "injured"

I am not saying lay down on the tracks for him.

But

You can do all the above without the anger when you choose that path.

He and OW are doing what they think is best for them.

Do what's best for you.

If your anger is what is serving you as the "best" for you...

Then let it hold sway over you.

This moment right now is when you decide what to do with it.

Don't confuse the love I talk about with weakness...

It is the most powerful thing you can EVER wield in this battle

No one can break that down when you decide to hold on to it.

You must though

Let go of his choices as something he is doing TO you.

he is doing it to himself.

Protect yourself always. I would never advise otherwise.

My goal is to some day be the person my dog thinks I am