I get it, you want to exhaust every option before calling it quits, what other options do you really believe you have? I think this is the first time someone has posted on these forums that they were a willing partner in a polygamous relationship that has lasted several years.
This is the house you built but now you're saying you don't want to live in it anymore but you don't want to sell it to someone else because it has sentimental value so you don't know how you can stay but make it a completely different home that you can live in, somehow you want the house to be different but still be the same.
Well hell. What I want is my wife to act loving to me again. It has nothing to do with sentimental value. Telling me over and over to dump the bitch isnt what I was lead to believe this website was about.
Yeah, I was dumb, I found myself trying to do something with her that I knew I didnt have the abilty to do. I lasted for years because no matter what she was doing and with who she was doing it with she always came home to me and always was very very loving with me.
That stopped a couple years ago when her life changed. Her job got shitty, her man toy actually got a job and suddenly wasnt available all the time to her. And somehow "I" had to pay for that by giving up more time (freedom) so they could frolic. When I rebeled against that suddenly I was the villan in this little drama. It has nothing to do with sentimental value. And everything to do with I expect people to honor the words they tell me. Or why tell people anything.
