really just want to write her back and say they are your feelings, I should not have read them and I dont feel the need for me to interpret those feelings.
You shouldn't interpret them, but you are just saying you are avoiding confrontation, and there isn't neccessarily a need for confrontation, and if you are honest without arguing about what she feels or trying to explain away her feelings?
You see what I mean?
I am sorry you felt that I wasn't there for the kids more often, I am sorry about lying, and I am sorry you didn't feel respected. Or...
The more generic... there's a lot of tough stuff in there, I am so sorry you felt that way.
M-47,W-40,No kids D-filed 5/27/2010 Piecing - 10/21/2010 -=Soon to be banned=-