If she "absolutely insists" that she is doing right by you, how come you aren't feeling right?
Because it feels wrong. It feels wrong to have someone desire someone the way she does for him and tell me that our fire has faded "And that's normal".
She sounds like someone who is pretty good at twisting words, thoughts and feelings around til you feel puzzled as to why you started complaining in the first place.
Well she is the most intelligent person I have ever know. Which puts me at quite the disadvantage anytime we talk. I generally go into each conversation with a clear plan of what I need to say and usually leave feelng like I was foolish for wanting anything I wanted.
If you don't feel right, it's quite possible that it isn't right regardless of how much she "absolutely insists" that she's doing right by you.
Maybe you should absolutely insist that you are doing right by her for her to start feeling the way she is supposed to feel about you just because you tell her to.
Yeah we all know how that conversation will go. "You can't force feelings".
Confused?
You shouldn't be, it's been working for her to say this crap to you and you ate it. Maybe serve her up a hot bowl of this soup and ask her how it tastes.
I know I shouldnt be confused. I am. I do not understand (beyond the obvious) why I am getting punished here for telling her it was time to start being a couple again. I took away her sex toy. But this is the person who insists to me constantly how sex isnt the most important thing in a relationship. Until it is of course.
