I think that sometimes the LBS has to initiate the legal stuff, otherwise the WAS will just float along. And sometimes the legal stuff is a useful dose of reality.
Limbo is just a five letter word for Hell though.
GBWY, Pigskin
Thanks pinhead.
I agree, I think the WAS has trouble pulling the trigger because it means they walked away AND put the nail in the coffin of the marriage. With the LBS doing the legal work, they may feel somewhat left off the hook and can always later claim that they would have patched things up.
I don't think it will be a wake up call to my W, regardless of how well she may be acting now. There's always the voice in the back of your head that says, "Maybe hold off just a bit longer, things may come around." But I am marching forward, and trusting in God to take care of everything out of my control. So far that has eliminated anxiety on my part.
WAW Using God Me-43 W-40 M-14 S-11 S-9 D-7 EABomb 5/09 Separated 12/09