I am actually considering the lover thing now. It sickens me to think about it. But there it is. I dont know. Most of you guys are dead on about this. I have always known that. Its not that I dont think that the best option probably is divorce, I just am trying to find anything else that will prevent that.
No stone unturned.
Taking a lover is a crummy idea.
Really? You need a LOVER now? NOW?
I thought what you want is your marriage? A lover is a distraction.
Geez. Greek
A lover is BAD. However what his wife is doing to him will strip a part of him, that only the opposite sex can put back. I guess if he totally disengaged and accepted that he would not be able to enjoy the pleasures of the opposite sex, while she's doing her thing. For most of us that is a big enough blow to have that choice forced on us.
Nah its a bad idea. I know that. I have been really hurting badly lately. I just dont get why IM being punished here. WHen she ended it with him a month ago, she told me straight out that she recognized I had reached my limits and couldnt go further with it. She ended it for me, so to turn around and put me in the penalty box I dont get it.
