I think he stopped going because it hurt him to see you doing so well. And flirting. And being hit on. That must have been painful for him. I know it would kill me to see my H doing so well--fortunately, my H is doing terrible right now.lol.
remember, i'm the lbs. he could care less what i do. as greek said. he has moved on.
if your h asked for a d, and he saw you having a ball. would he be hurt? it's mind reading that i want to avoid.
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Is this how it went, or did you take charge and "beat him" at getting this D moving?!
i tried to talk him out of it and educate him on the consequences but i think he wanted to be right at all costs. he was probably tired of me being right. and you know how i give that 'look'? i think even though i may not have relished in my victories with words, i probably did so in other ways .. like giving a 'look'. i don't want to say i didn't because it's obvious i did .. just didn't know it. i've learned a lot about me here .. and that i say i didn't give the look .. but likely didn't know i was giving 'the look'.
i'm working on figuring out whether i want to be right or be married. what does being right mean? if i choose 'being married', does that mean i have to stop being right even though i know what the right thing is?
