Making progress and reconnecting.....ayieee

[CPCajun]

It would be REALLLLLLY good if you had these "loose-leaf," in your mind, at-the-ready for discussion when appropriate. Cuz these are WAY too important to get caught flat-footed should the moment arise when she asks you the ultimate thing every betrayed spouse waits to hear:

"What would it take?"

Puppy

Well crap...she did it. She asked "What would it take or what can I(W) do?" Cought me off guard, total shock.
I had some of my boundaries in my head but not all. I did tell her I had to think about it some more. She said it was ok. She agreed to what I had(No sharing, finances,being transparant,etc), and said since things change we will discuss new ones as they come.
She also wanted me back into the house, completely. She gave me a list of her boundaries(which I knew..most of). I also agreed to them(name calling, bad behavior, common bad behavior).

So things are looking good so far. I still see she is still cautious and I am gonning to take it slow.

Sorry for the short and brief, gotta go run some errands.

oh..Puppy I smoked that Gurka for ya(for all of ya'll actually)...thanks for all the advice......

Y'all have a good weekend!!!!