This is where a good, pro-marriage MC can help you deal with the anger, guilt and resentment you're both feeling.
We have had 4 sessions. Our next one is Thursday. He went out of town and we had to wait 2 weeks becuase of that and my wifes work, I knew going that long in between would be a problem. She is suspose to bring him a list of things she wants on the next trip (since she was having trouble deciding what she wants) I was suspose to not ask for a commitment from her either on anything. I have done that since we talked to him on the phone 3 days ago. I hope she keeps going. I just need to find a way to let her give this time before she makes up her mind, and get her to calm down, while also droping the thought that this is going to fail before we have a chance. She has got to atleast think there is some sort of chance. You cant put the work in if you think your wasting your time.
